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Hello my loves, I'm currently eating cheesecake while watching WWE Night of Champions on the WWE Network! I bloody love wrestling! I used to watch it as a little girl at a friends house and have loved it ever since. I don't watch it every time it's on because we don't have sky sports but I do watch it every Sunday morning with Robby :) 

Now something has been bothering me, this post may offend some people, and could very easily be seen as me 'having a pop' but I promise you I'm not, what I am about to write is something I think we should all just think about because it's something we all say to others...

Please stop asking me about children, please don't say 'you'll be next' or 'are you thinking about children?' Etc etc. The truth is, every time someone asks me about whether me and rob are wanting children or even trying for children, fills me with worry. 

I may have said this before I'm not sure but I have a condition called Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, a condition that causes cysts to develop on the ovaries which then may or may not effect the monthly lady time all us ladies hate. Which then makes it slightly more difficult to ovulate meaning becoming pregnant can take sometime. NOW not all women with this have any problems becoming pregnant what so ever, but then again, some do. I do not know what my chances are, it may be easy or difficult. Gosh who's to say even without this condition I would be able too. EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. 

I feel like it's something we all ask couples who have no children but before asking just think. We have no idea what that couples situation is, by asking we may be hurting them. We just don't know what could be going on. When I get asked about it, I'm not going to lie, it adds more worry to that little doubt in the back of my mind which thinks I'll never have babies. I understand the people asking mean no harm, it's sweet that they think myself and Rob will make good parents but I ask you please to stop asking me. I will let you all know if and when I become pregnant. There's no doubt in my mind that I will blog about it haha. 

I have well and truly hit the broody phase of my life and nothing would make me happier than to have a child with my love Rob. But I can't rush it, I can't click my fingers and all of a sudden become pregnant. The longer it takes the stronger the doubt. But I will continue to think 'if it happens, it happens' 



I really hope you can understand where I am coming from with this post. I promise I'm not telling anyone off. 

Much love
Beth xxx
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